जो कुंठित थे तुम मुझ से
पीठ पीछे बोल आये
भूल बैठे सामने मेरे दो कान
पीठ पीछे मेरे हजार कान
So what you thought.... you would yell all of your frustration on mine behind my back in someone else ear and I won’t get to know all this…. How can you trust any one else if you yourself are not able to hide your emotions … In front I have two ears but behind my back I have dozens ear with amplifying capacities also. So beware next time before speaking anything about me coz I know each and every thing you said behind my back........
Before you quit reading let me make it clear this is not a personal blog but a piece of advice to all, that there is no point in backstabbing. No one in this present practical world is that much trustable that they will confine your private talks to themselves only. A little communication gap and all the poison you blow would disclosed to the world in an amplified form.
Now let’s get to the root of this backstabbing thing. The genuine cause is the evergreen comparing of people on one’s own illogical criteria. All of us wish that other person must act as per us. We never respect any one’s difference. If we are introvert and other one is witty then he is peculiar and must talk less. Vice versa case is also applicable. We love to judge others and make particular prejudices. And this prejudice propagates and enters into real world through our frustration and acts like backstabbing.
One needs to understand that as there are no similar finger prints so how can two people have exact same characteristics. Each one has the right to act according to them and we are no one to compel them to act as per us. If some one is acting wrongly then what’s the point in yelling behind ones back. We are just putting thrones at the bridge of our relation with them by doing this. Perhaps our suggestion may help the person to rectify his faults and improve his personality. At least we would be on safe side, as if any one hears from some ones else mouth then surely he would misinterpret and your relationship would spoil. Try to limit the conversations between you and other one only and stop the trespassing of any third person. Be transparent in any relation else your character would loose transparency.
पीठ पीछे बोल आये
भूल बैठे सामने मेरे दो कान
पीठ पीछे मेरे हजार कान
So what you thought.... you would yell all of your frustration on mine behind my back in someone else ear and I won’t get to know all this…. How can you trust any one else if you yourself are not able to hide your emotions … In front I have two ears but behind my back I have dozens ear with amplifying capacities also. So beware next time before speaking anything about me coz I know each and every thing you said behind my back........
Before you quit reading let me make it clear this is not a personal blog but a piece of advice to all, that there is no point in backstabbing. No one in this present practical world is that much trustable that they will confine your private talks to themselves only. A little communication gap and all the poison you blow would disclosed to the world in an amplified form.
Now let’s get to the root of this backstabbing thing. The genuine cause is the evergreen comparing of people on one’s own illogical criteria. All of us wish that other person must act as per us. We never respect any one’s difference. If we are introvert and other one is witty then he is peculiar and must talk less. Vice versa case is also applicable. We love to judge others and make particular prejudices. And this prejudice propagates and enters into real world through our frustration and acts like backstabbing.
One needs to understand that as there are no similar finger prints so how can two people have exact same characteristics. Each one has the right to act according to them and we are no one to compel them to act as per us. If some one is acting wrongly then what’s the point in yelling behind ones back. We are just putting thrones at the bridge of our relation with them by doing this. Perhaps our suggestion may help the person to rectify his faults and improve his personality. At least we would be on safe side, as if any one hears from some ones else mouth then surely he would misinterpret and your relationship would spoil. Try to limit the conversations between you and other one only and stop the trespassing of any third person. Be transparent in any relation else your character would loose transparency.
5 comments:
Its not at all wrong if you take it by another perspective :) And its known as "Rajneeti"
rajneeti is intentional... and u rightly know how CHANAKYA use it for his purpose :P ... but I was talking about unintentional reflex actions here
.. well i believe no one should hide things... if u live like a open book.. no one dares to say any thing that hurts ur image!
people will still tease you as you do not fit in their's criteria ... you may act like an open book but then also people may not appreciate the content of the book ..
I think u r right mayank.( the orignal blogger :) )
everyone is different and has right to be
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